S
tay, Daughter is a coming-of-age memoir that gives an intimate glimpse
into
the world of
Muslims. Set in the colonial citadel of the Galle Fort, the story
follows
the history of a community
that in the late 19th century, breaks with the traditions of the time to
give girls a secular education
and permission to go out of their homes. Before long, such freedom and
exposure to foreign
ideas brings heartbreak to many families as their daughters break away
from
traditional norms.
Against this backdrop unfolds the story of a father and patriarch whose
values are rooted in the
conservative Islamic culture into which he was born. When in later years
he
has to negotiate a
changing world where women are no longer who they used to be, tragedy
unfolds.
Although the book narrates the story of a single family, it draws on a
situation almost all Muslims
struggle with: the challenge of balancing the rules of orthodox Islam
with
the freedom and
innovations of the modern world.
Yasmin Azad was born and raised in the Galle Fort, Sri Lanka. After
obtaining a
degree in English from the University of Ceylon, and a brief stint as a
lecturer, she moved to the United States in her twenties. She recently
retired
after many years as a mental health counselor.